Hope you all are experiencing a blessed and fruitful beginning to the year In Sha Allah.
I recently returned from a short but sweet holiday in Vietnam alghamdulliah, and now, state that Princess of Hearts is officially back to business. It is only the first 10 days of January; however, I have noticed a visible increase in men signing up for my private match making service. Believe it or not, they seem to find the whole process of hiring a Match Maker to assist them in finding love, a lot more daunting than their female counterparts. In saying this, it is an extremely bold move altogether. I mean, based on the feedback I have gotten from clients I have signed up for this service, there are a whirlwind of emotions they experience ahead of actually mustering up the courage to contact me and to proceed to the next step.
In saying that, I have decided to provide an overview of the process for signing up for Private One on One Match Making. The intention is to provide insight to those that may not be at the point where they are ready to take this step. I hope this gives comfort, in the sense that it shows it isn’t so scary, it is actually heaps of fun, after that initial fear has been conquered.
First things first, you get to meet me! Yayy! Just kidding lol, but you do get to meet me. We have an initial face to face meeting, for those that are able to. You provide me with some background information as to your past, i.e. if you were married before and if you have any kids. You then have the opportunity to shed some light on what you like doing for fun, interests and those things that make your heart beat faster. Once that is out the way, we get to create your ideal partner. Basically, you tell me what you are looking for in a prospective spouse, ranging from characteristics to aesthetics. Generally, this process takes 30 minutes to 2 hours depending on how talkative and expressive the client is. It is a lowkey therapy session in which freedom of speech and expression is encouraged. This gives me a vast idea of the character and persona of the client, which greatly assists me in finding compatible matches.
At this point an amalgamation of excitement and nervousness has probably kicked in and the mission is about to launch.
This is where the fun begins.
Depending on the package that is chosen, 1 to 8 blind dates are booked. The process then begins with me sourcing prospects via my online database, participants that have attended past events, other private match making clients and last but not least, referrals from Islamic Leaders in the community.
I coordinate amongst the client and prospect, a date, time and place. Generally, a coffee shop or restaurant is favored. The blind dates then commence. They are either a match, or we move to the next blind date, quite swiftly. For those that have booked the package with either 3 or 5 blind dates, we generally do atleast one date a month until all dates have been exhausted. Sometimes they never are, as soul mates have met and nikkahs then take place. Yes it has happened time and time again where the first or second or even 4th blind date is now a husband or a wife alghamdullilah.
The entire process is a risk and takes a leap of faith. Nothing is guaranteed apart from the fact that it is already pre-written in Taqdeer. My professional opinion is that the ones with the least expectations and the open hearts, tend to find their perfect match more easily and effortlessly.
And there you have it, that is the process of my private match making service, in a nutshell. Please feel free to contact me, should you have any questions.
JazahkAllah so much for the interest and for taking the time to read this post.
Lets keep each other in our best duas so that we can all live in happiness and tranquility with the one whom Allah has decreed for us. Ameen.
Lots of love,